Oh Emma, you crack me up. Those are the kinds of thoughts I have all the time. I can see myself noticing the age of the winners and then wondering how much they lost before they won too.
I guess we always question the whys and the motivations of things and you're right, so many people don't.
It reminds me of when I was younger and the things people would say about things like shopping, jewelry, etc., and I would be curious as to why they felt that way. I would say, why? And they'd look at like I was crazy, and they'd say because..., and I'd be like, because what? and then they'd say, just because..., and after awhile I figured that they couldn't explain why they liked or did a certain thing and I learned who you can talk to about things. Some people never check their motivations or wonder why they feel a certain way, while I can't stop thinking about the wonderful world of observations.
If a person asks me why I feel a certain way about something I can answer in great detail because it's based on my experiences, but throughout life I have met many people who cannot answer any questions regarding why they believe something is so. It's interesting.
I am just generally a very curious person and I am very much interested in the question 'why' rather than 'how'. When I was growing up I had all sorts of questions and I remember my parents would get really tired of my questions after a while and would tell me to leave it alone. But I would never until I got the answer. I have all sorts of curiosity, really. I even count the stairs I take just to see how many stairs there are. lolol
But that has also got me into all sorts of trouble, really since people, as you said, really don't want to answer 'why'. Sometimes, they are even offended. For example, when we were driving to the Niagara Falls, I noticed my friends GPS voice was a male voice so as usual I got curious and I asked why did she have a male voice when the default design is female. She totally reacted to that question and basically told me off. lolol but never answered the question why. My other friend at the backseat said that because she's female she probably likes to hear a male voice and that's why she changed it from female to male. Anyway, one thing led to another and I got really curious about why most computers' voice is initially set as a female voice (the default setting). My other 3 friends agreed because female voice is nicer and sexually more arousing to the male bunch and since we live in a male dominant society therefore, yaddi yaddi yadda stuff. I told them not to give a 'sexual twist' to every explanation there is without knowing for a fact. lolol because honestly, they were all making sweeping generalization to almost everything and everything had something to do with sex.
But of course I wasn't going to leave at that. lolol I came back, I googled it and it turns out it has nothing to do with sex. Yes, the male bunch love to hear a female voice but
both men and women prefer the female voice because it sounds warm, friendly and caring (the fact that women are more nurturing by default as well) and not because it's arousing. Also, another very interesting research was, after the character Hal 3000 in 2001: A Space Odyssey came out in 1968, a male computer voice that takes over the space shuttle, left many with creepy feelings, so that was another factor to take into account when they installed the computer voice in most things. Mind you, technology only advanced this much after the 70s and before that we had no GPS, voice-mail and all other stuff that we use on a daily basis right now, so Hal 3000 did have a huge affect on general mass.
So anyway, by nature I am very curious and that's why I never really followed my religion or any other religion because I was more interested in the answer as to why I should be following anything than just go and do it. My biggest beef with science is that (and I love science), it never answers why but only answers how. And it never will because that too its default design. Ultimately it can never answer why. If you ask why there was a Big Bang to begin with, there's absolutely no answer to it even when there's sufficient data to provide that the Big Bang actually happened.