I want to RANT AND RAVE......
When my husband passed away, I had no job.... I was a housewife. With 3 children, and the eldest having a part time, I decided to start my own childcare and it was enough to pay the bills and put food on the table, but I had to make do without many things and often made sacrifices to make ends meet. I had neighbors, the husband worked and made pretty bucks and the wife worked in a clinic. Every day they knocked at my door, "Can I get some bread?", Can I get milk?", "Do you have any sugar I can borrow," (yeah...like you're going to bring me back my sugar)", "Do you have tomato sauce?"....it was endless, and I never said no. They would come have coffee in the mornings. There were time I even cooked dinner for them and their children!
UNTIL.....I find out that they were both working off the books, she was receiving Section 8 (a government program that pays a portion of the rent based on your income), she was on public assistance (which paid the rest of the rent that Section 8 didn't cover), plus they send her enough to pay her utility and cable bill......and they got at least 600. every month in food stamps. Basically, what they earned in working was for their luxury of weed and high tech equipment. They were scheming the system!
And here I was struggling....and feeding them! It really bothers me to see people doing things like this and getting away with it!
In time they lost everything...even their apartment. So.....they didn't really get away with it after all.
There are so many people like that. I worked with these two ladies. One lady was so sweet. Every day she brought lunch for all three of us. Sometimes I ate and sometimes I didn't because it felt like taking advantage of her, although she insisted. But, there were days that I had no plans for lunch and the food was there, so I ate. At any rate, whether I ate or not I brought her Coke and ordered pizza on Fridays to give her a break.
The other lady ate every day and had the nerve to complain even though she was getting the food for free. I just shook my head. So, one day Stingy brought in some chicken salad which looked a lot like the tuna salad (the best tuna in the world) Sweety Pie brought in. So I said, "Oh did Sweety bring in tuna salad?" And Stingy who always ate pizza with us on Fridays said, in a nasty voice. "That's my tuna salad. I brought that in." I was like whoa, excuse me. But no problem because people like that are always in need because they put their wants first.
Stingy would go and buy perfume and pay exorbitant prices at the beauty salon (which she couldn't afford) and then bum money off of every one else. The money she paid for the perfume with had come from her daughter who gave her the money to help out with her rent.
One day she asked me to borrow $200 or she was going to be evicted. I had some extra cash and actually considered it, then I looked down at her Starbucks cup and the croissants she had bought from the pricey eatery next door and thought, uh no.
Well come to find out, guess what Stingy did? I still can't believe it. She actually claimed six kids as dependents, although she was 63 years old and lived in a one bedroom apartment. She did this for years and finally she got audited! She is now supposed to pay a hefty fine and prove that the children lived with her, which she will not be able to do.
People like this are infuriating. Sweety is still helping her get to work, feeding her, and helping her find a new place to live.
Personally, I am glad someone else is helping her, because I was going to. There are people who are total users and takers and they feel no remorse in taking advantage of others.
Bad fortune follows Stingy with one catastrophe after another, but she never sees the error of her ways. And you know what? She never will.
Some people live off their wits and they don't who they use to get their way.
Disgusting behavior.