Deep down he's just upset with you herc, since you know, he knows you for such a long time and he probably feels you didn't return the favour as much as you know, he has defended you quite a bit in the past. I agree with him somewhat in the sense that, both him and I should mean the same amount to you since we both know you for the same period of time and I believe after T4U, he probably had more communications with than I did at that time. Also, he doesn't know who TT is or Mr. Tee is etc. so he feels short since they are mods/admin etc. and he's not. Just showing you where he's coming from. You can't fight hatred with hatred. You have to be kind and see why he's still upset with you. After all we know him for a long time and you know, he's not known for this kind of behaviour.
Great post, Emma. Every word.
We always have to look at all sides of the coin.