CAMELOT FANTASIES

Fortunately my "ex-friend" will pay the fine. Since it wasn't me who ordered the shampoo, nothing will end up on my personal profile. We explained them very well what happened and they believed me. If necessary, I would have even gone there to prove them that it is not me who has problems with dandruff or whatever. Hahahaha.

Well, he knows that I had a threesome before so he is constantly asking me about it and suggesting to try it as well. Hahaha. Maybe I shouldn't have told him about it. At the moment he is all about his education and work stuff again. I don't feel like bothering him anymore. Yesterday I met a good friend and he told me that I should stop pursuing this guy for a while, get a bit of distance, hang out with other people, etc. I can still meet him next month if I feel like it but I suppose it'd be best for me to keep my distance. If he doesn't start investing a bit more then, then it is surely not worth it. He just has other priorities now and I don't want to stand in his way.

Yeah, I too think you shouldn't have told him about the threesome especially if you're going to be romantically involved with him. I really think guys are all business like even when it comes to the opposite sex and tend to weigh things that way. As much as they like sex, I think in the end if they do have the intention of having a girlfriend or wife, they will go with someone who's more reliable in that regard. So if it so happen that this doesn't work out and if you happen to find another guy you happen to like just as much, don't tell him about your sexual adventures. The divorce rate in NA alone is now almost 70% and the number one reason for that is actually infidelity. Besides, there are all sorts of sexual diseases eww. I am very careful about these things, really.

IMO your friend is right on the mark. Once you step away from scene, the infatuation will wear off but unfortunately a lot of people would rather make the mistake than to be careful about it.  I don't think though there's  great loss in it since you already kind of half know what to expect.  You just want to be sure about it and that's alright.

I meant to ask several times, is this the same guy you met on your birthday night when you were traveling Croatia back then?