Me being independent is quite right. My friends think I am overdoing it. If I go on a date I don't let the guy pay for my meal, drinks etc. - even on a first date. This is just to avoid any kind of expectations from me that strikes as bit too early. But more importantly, I don't like anyone bossing me or trying to own me just as much I don't like to boss or own anyone though Alex might disagree - on a second thought. lol
Okay, cool. I think I will give Javier some kind of assignments too. Like say things that would please me only etc. haha