Funny insights on the singleness of Camelot. I am separated, not divorced yet. I've been married twice, both against my will, LOL, but the truth is, I prefer the single state and will never get married again. The reason is that I've been told that I think like a man. I don't need a lot of together time and prefer my mate have his own interests. I don't like to babysit or be babysat. There is a freedom to being single that appeals to me. When in a relationship I find myself secretly resenting the 24/365 process, it's such a drag.
I am very much like you in this regard. See, we have a fascinating thing in common. In any case, we will consider you a single. 
I know you think like a man, which is why it's easy for me to relate to you. You don't accept societal norms so much, and instead choose your own path. It's funny though in real life, the reactions you get, especially when you look feminine and appear to be a certain type of girl. Then when men realize that you're more than a girl, you're a woman, they seem confused and not sure how to deal with you.
Do you get that type of reaction from the masculine sex? I do. They always say, "you're so different" with a perplexed look. It's like, "I like it, I think." ROFL!