I had an awkward experience on Saturday night but I'll get into details tonight. Don't think I should be posting this sort of stuff from work place.
interesting. now you have everybody`s attention lady emma.
Well I don't think it's that kind of interesting. It's kind of disturbing and I am not sure what to make out of it or if there's something at all.
I had a few friends over on Saturday night and one of them has a son who has just turned 8 this summer. His mum forgot his DS and left it in the car, so before dinner she went downstairs to get it from the car. My sister and two friends were in the kichen preparing the food. I was in the leaving room with Zayan, my friend's son. All of a sudden he said, 'do you wanna see my butt'? I thought he was fooling around, you know how kids are these days. So I said, 'eww no!' I took it very lightly not giving it an ounce of thought. So then I went to my washroom to brush my hair . My sister and friends were still in the kitchen talking and laughing really loud so they couldn't really hear us. Zayan then followed me to the washroom and said, 'I am wearing a new underwear. Do you want to see it?' That's when I was a little surprised because he wears new stuff all the the time and he's never into showing off his new clothes, shoes etc. to anyone. So I wasn't sure why of all things he would be so keen on showing me his new underwear. But it was all happening so fast and I was still into brushing my hair so I said reluctantly, 'yeah, ok'. And then he just pulled his front side of the pant down and showed me only the front part. And his face looked odd. That's when it dawned on me that maybe there's more to it than just an innocent act leading up to this point. I wasn't able to tell his mother because I am not sure how she'd react to it or if there's anything to it at all. It's just a women's instinct that I am going with. I am very puzzled by all this and not sure what to make out of it. I don't spend much time with kids so I am not sure what they are all about at this age. At what age does puberty hit a boy anyway? If it's that then why me? and in this manner? Do you think there was anything to it?
I told my sister later and she too thought it wasn't anything normal. We both know Zayan since he was 5 so obviously it has thrown both of us off.