What can I say, it's very interesting to have this conversation. My advice now would be not to force anything, try to let things go as naturally as possible. Don't try to make any sudden changes, just adapt with the new information you obtained and in time you will see progress. I have my own obstacles, some repeating dreams which are a puzzle and are totally uncontrollable no matter what I try to do. So, I can't say I have the answers. I am targeting OBE as well, it may be the most interesting experience in the universe, but not only is a OBE a lucid dream, it's a vivid relocation of the mind, which scientists are puzzled about it being totally produced in our mind or not. To actively produce one is to use detail to unlock one door into our mind, then let loose at everything that is there. Scientifically, I think it means that the brain has some pieces composed of exotic matter and unlocking this potential means causing the mind to become unstuck in space time (more like a M-theory concept), sending your consciousness across a border which is currently limiting our body. I've read a lot of information on this one, and I still think I have many things to learn to get there, and I sincerely hope a lifetime is enough. Who knows.
