#1 The offense & the offended.
on 03 Apr, 2018 12:30 in Metamorphoses Evolved
This the key to never allowing yourself to be offended Knowing Thyself! Hear we go - The Offendor - If nothing is said, would be no offense, I believe that. But - what people don’t realize is that perception, is key. The offending person may not think what they say is offensive & they just come out with it. The Offended then thinks about it & says to themselves, they should not have said that. Right or wrong on both sides we are still 50-50 in responsibility here so far. This is where we can remove all our insecurities, which are the underlying reasons for why we feel the need to defend ourselves or say - bully someone in the first place. If You Knew Who You Are! You Would Not Take Offense! Whatever happens would be like someone called you a boogerhead & you laugh & go about your day. If you allow the What I call “ The Nothing That Matters Things”. You Will gain progress until your eventual demise or realization of the truth. By Tome Jaffa Real