This the key to never allowing yourself to be offended Knowing Thyself! Hear we go - The Offendor - If nothing is said, would be no offense, I believe that. But - what people don’t realize is that perception, is key. The offending person may not think what they say is offensive & they just come out with it. The Offended then thinks about it & says to themselves, they should not have said that. Right or wrong on both sides we are still 50-50 in responsibility here so far. This is where we can remove all our insecurities, which are the underlying reasons for why we feel the need to defend ourselves or say - bully someone in the first place. If You Knew Who You Are! You Would Not Take Offense! Whatever happens would be like someone called you a boogerhead & you laugh & go about your day. If you allow the What I call “ The Nothing That Matters Things”. You Will gain progress until your eventual demise or realization of the truth. By Tome Jaffa Real
Welcome to Camelot Sir Tome Jaffa Real
Great perspective!
Many angles to the offense and the offended.
Looking forward to more...
Thank you
~Divine