Clay, I felt like saying things when I went kinda quiet but didn't want people to be sick of "hearing" me with their minds "ears" so to speak & didn't want anyone to think I was "up myself" thinking I was so good when I wasn't so to speak by having too much to say. Sometimes I thought that what I had to say wasn't relevant to what was being said & if I want to join in & have a laugh I have to ensure I either have something relevant to say or explain my ignorance in certain areas & ask questions. Niceties are important too. I hope that if anybody ever has a problem with me they'll tell me privately, euphemistically, diplomatically & tactfully like the civilised human beings we are. I can also be too conscientious for my own good at times. I know you offer everyone freedom but I always feel the necessity to answer them as soon as possible after they've asked me a question & feel guilty if I haven't & I know I regulate myself too strictly sometimes. I've also been working on those pieces I said I was doing.
nobody has any issues with anybody lady Ann.
everybody is free as the wind at Camelot and people just do their own thing.
it is a very busy world and people just post when they can.
our only deal is that we don't have about 700 members here. it is a very small family.
I have speculated that we need around 700 members. and out of those 700 we could easily see about 20-25-30 interacting a little bit.
but the forums are different now. most of them are dying out or quite inactive.
we do the best we can here. it is our home for life. we will just enjoy it.
it is our Camelot and nobody can tell us what to do here. we just do whatever we please and we try to share with the world the best we can.