I think most of the posters there are very tennis oriented so they stick to threads that are more related to that. It's a tennis forum after all. Some of them do hang out on other threads like the Movie, Music, art etc. but only a few. Anyway, that doesn't even matter and I don't think they need to hang out at the Castle either. I know that a relationship takes time to build and we were never there. I know baron britbox from before so I was most comfortable with him and I really liked Kieran - he's such a sweetheart. He'd hang out a lot at the Castle but as I said, they don't and didn't need to. They just needed to trust you and Javi enough to leave it alone. But you know, it's hteir forum after all though I wish they'd known what they were getting into because Castle has it's fare share of controversies. So once they accepted it, IMHO, they should have been brave enough to stick with it. There was just way too much meddling to the point I felt really uncomfortable and I let Owen know too. Anyway, it's in the past now. Best things tend to come out from the worst or they say.
I am sorry to here that betty got upset. Probably it's some of our fault too. You've been always great at greeting all the posters but I am afraid I haven't done the same with either betty or nikki, so I take some responsibility as well.